The turquoise Aare river, with trees and a bridge

Made in Bern. For all of Switzerland.

Real people. Real connections.

A date, a relationship or a new friendship: meet people nearby who are looking for the same thing. AareDate brings you together, so your next conversation can become a real encounter.

Create your profile How it works

For people aged 18 and over

Our river. Our name. Your next hello.

From a first hello to a real connection

Show who you are
Add your own photos and tell people what matters to you. A thoughtful profile makes starting a conversation easier.
Find people nearby
Explore profiles, choose your preferences and show your interest with a like. When you like each other, you have a match.
Make it personal
Start a chat. Share a laugh. If it feels right, meet for coffee or a walk by the Aare — at your own pace.

Our real-people policy

You belong here. Your AI double does not.

AareDate is for real people who want to meet other real people. Be yourself and let others see the real you.

One real person behind every profile. No invented identities or impersonation.
Use photos of yourself. AI-generated profile photos, face swaps and misleading impersonations are not allowed.
Talk to each other personally. No bots or automated conversations.

Something seems wrong? Use the report or block controls in a profile or chat.

AareDate

Your pace. Your choice.

Choose what you share, who you like and which conversations you continue. You can adjust your profile and privacy settings, block people or delete your account.

Read our privacy policy

Good to know

Is AareDate only for people in Bern?

AareDate comes from Bern and welcomes people across Switzerland. You can use location and profile preferences to find people near you.

Can I look for friendship too?

Yes. Tell people in your profile what you are looking for — a relationship, friendship or something else. Be honest about your expectations and respect those of others.

Are AI profiles allowed?

No. AareDate is for real adults using their own identity and photos. Fake profiles, AI-generated profile photos, bots and automated conversations are not allowed.